Hi all. I have had some readings that are really good this spread that will be from a book called “Method of Tarot” by Evelyne Herbin and Terry Donaldson:
1) what you are actually bringing to the relationship 2) what your location is now, with regards to each other 3) what you’re looking to get through the relationship 4) just what each other is bringing within their relationship to you 5) what they’re leaving it 6) what they’re hoping to achieve/experience to you 7) the way you look at other individual 8) the way they see you 9) the manner in which you saw him/her when you came across 10) the way the other individual saw you on your own very first conference 11) your very own anxieties/inconscious worries 12) your partner’s anxieties/unconscious fears 13) outside influences upon you 14) exterior influences upon each other 15) where in fact the relationship is certainly going
Lay the Querent’s cards regarding the left plus the “other’s” in the right. Hope you love.
This spread was done by me and the things I noticed is the fact that there isn’t any ‘guidance’ or assist. Where do you turn if you should be interested in assistance changing a mindset or the result? Or think about some type or type of suggestions about dealing with the worries and anxieties?
I prefer just how it creates things pretty clear – aesthetically aided by the left/right separation. You can observe if both events within the relationship are ‘on the same web page’ and you will additionally observe the connection has ‘morphed’ through the very first conference to your current day.
We liked it quite a lot.. but I would personally include a few alternatives for guidance.
We of low quality at reading cards, consequently, i would like your aid in assisting me to analysis the consequence of this spread.
Now he’s with another woman but he always confide between him and the girl in me abt the relationship prob.