First, ask him to stay a place that is mental he could be available to hear several things. Emphasize that you will be ON their SIDE. This will be about causing you to a much better group. Ask him to split up their side that is emotional from logical part and also to pay attention along with his rational part.
2nd, simply tell him the ways that are many allows you to delighted and what you love about him. Share through the list you made.
Third, Explain the love bank, ask him what then you will do which makes him the happiest.
If intimate closeness makes him happiest, the correlation between healthy fat and greater regularity of sex is not hard to exhibit.